Today seems to be going by fast for a Friday. I am, in no way shape or form, complaining. Just so you know.
I woke this morning with a crazy hangover - of course I went to bed with the spins and a stomach that threatened to upheave it’s contents if I rolled the wrong way or moved from the fetal position. This combined with a boyfriend who kept elbowing me in his drunken sleep left me feeling rather…restless.
What caused this state of inebriation?
Why, the “Taste of Vermont” reception! Now, I don’t talk much about my homestate because well…for 18 years I wanted nothing more than to leave and start over and leave my dorky, nerdy, outsider reputation behind. I did. I accomplished a few things then I went back and then I abruptly left again.
I realized, upon my first visit back, that I have a lot of home state pride. I never used to because well…people think of Vermont and they think of hippies wearing birkenstock, smoking pot and listening to the grateful dead or singing kum-bay-ah around a campfire.
Me? Well…freshman year of college I may have associated a little too closely to my roots - i was a cords wearing, emo glasses sporting, vegetarian, certified bleeding heart liberal with political stickers sporting my desktop tower, and my nalgene bottle with the oval VT sticker on it along with the stickers from a few mountains i had yet to ski on.
My friends…called me “crunchy.” Freshman year, when I first met the ex? He didn’t even look twice at me in “that way” because of my…crunchy affiliation if you will. However, within the next two years? He appreciated my newfound classiness.
Sometime around sophomore year once I started making a lil bling on coop, I traded my faux-birkenstocks for steve maddens. Next? I traded my corduroy messenger bag for a coach bag. By my 21st birthday? I traded the emo glasses in for contacts, bought myself a hair straighener, bought me some blonde hair dye to get rid of the auburn that I had dyed it in anger after I discovered a short-term boyfriend had been cheating on me, and bought myself a Tiffany’s necklace.
I had become…one of those girls. I wore short skirts instead of khaki cargo pants, I traded up in the shoe world for multiple pairs of Steve Maddens. I probably said “like” far too many times and found myself hitting up the tanning booth once in a while…I did not. Want to become. One of them.
These days? I wear madras and seersucker and Jackie O. sunglasses, my style resembles a little more high class than the crunchy earthiness I once branded myself with. But last night? Despite my wardrobe and branding revamp I’ve taken the past five-six years, I was in heaven. They had Bova’s pasta - an Italian place on Pearl Street downtown that has the best Italian in Burlington, they had Long Trail Ale abd Magic Hat and Otter Creek and while I’m not a fan of dark beers? I love the lighter beers and IPA’s found in my homestate. I found a winery that’s located just off Route 7 in Shelburne that I never knew existed, I found a distillery somewhere in the Central part of the state that had “all natural” vodka. They had Ben & Jerry’s which despite me taking a break from my two favorite boys, brought me home and reminded me of the comfort I sought in B&J freshman year of college whenever I was having a rough time with friends, classes or boys. They had a table for the ECHO Leahy Center downtown and boyfriend asked me if it would be a place that I’d want to get married at, they had the Sheraton Burlington which was where I had my Junior prom.
It was like a time warp. Reminded by the man representing the Expo Center of all the summers I went to the fair with friends and the smell of the greasy fair food which is the only good part about it since I’ve grown out of the sketchy carnie rides. I was reminded of the time my father took me to the Cabot Factory one summer weekend when we were driving home from my grandparents camp. I ran into old staffers that I interned with, shook the hands of Bernie and Leahy who no matter how old I am? Still make me smile.
As I type this? I can’t wait to go back home. I can’t wait to go out on the boat on the lake, drink beers with the family up at camp by the fire, walk downtown seeing all the street performers, sing karaoke at one of the best dive bars I’ve ever been to - I mean if you think you have a good dive? JP’s is a million times better - dingy carpeting, wood panel on the walls, with a karaoke DJ that looks like Louie Anderson. And? They serve PBR in a can.
I digress, I don’t think you can really appreciate where you’re from, your roots if you will, till you leave. It’s only been recently that I’ve been able to say I’m a Vermonter, I appreciate 30″ of snow, I know that mud season? Is a real season. I love my Socialist Senator, and I? Am a bleeding hard liberal (to some degree). My roots made me who I am and regardless of the pearls, the make up, the high heels, the seersucker… I’ll always be from Vermont.
What do you appreciate about where you’re from??












11 comments
Comments feed for this article
May 16, 2008 at 1:38 pm
Jackie
I very much agree that you can’t appreciate your “home” until you leave. I went to college near my hometown, and until I graduated I never really “left” for more than a few months each summer (I was on the opposite normal college student schedule….near home during school, away from home during summer). After spending two years living in North Carolina (which I chose for it’s lack of snow and distance from my family) I miss REAL winters and hate that I only got to see my fam like 3 times a year. Although I am still not back in NY, I think DC will be a better fit than the dirty south.
May 16, 2008 at 2:31 pm
Trish Ryan
What a great post. It’s true…I’m a Maine girl, but I didn’t appreciate how amazing it was to grow up with ocean and beach and seasons until I moved inland and to the city. Wow, what a wakeup call!
Still though, I think trading in birks for cute shoes is always something to be celebrated
May 16, 2008 at 2:53 pm
Amy
Well we all know how much I appreciated New York upon living in Boston
I love that we have some of the best food around. New York bagels, New York Pizza? Jewish deli’s, and tons of mom and pop restaurants that are way more fabulous than anything I’ve encountered in Boston or Orlando.
I lived 5 minutes from the beach to the north, and 15 minutes from the south. I grew up in the shadow of the greatest city in the world, but if you drive out east, it’s the country.
And I cannot stress enough New Yorkers. They don’t take shit, but it’s because they expect the best from everyone. Growing up where I did taught me to stand up and not get walked all over, even though I look little and impressionable. And beneath that tough exterior are some of the kindest people willing to help their neighbors in the world. See: 9/11 for an example.
New York might make us jaded, but it’s home, and it makes us stronger.
May 16, 2008 at 2:59 pm
flipflopsintherain
PBR in a can — love it! You call that high-class, though?
I’m from the other Washington, and I’ve brought my flipflops (in the rain, ha) and North Face-esque fleeces and hoodies with me. I’m a lot more laid-back than most the people I’ve met here in the last year, i feel guilty when I can’t recycle, and I mock the Grey’s Anatomy version of Seattle during every episode. I can’t stand this craptastic weather, but after living in the mostly gloomy and gray Northwest without an umbrella (the ultimate sign that someone’s a tourist), I’m thankful the end is near and am craving the humidity. I miss the mountains, lakes, smoke-free bars and drive-up espresso stands on every corner, but this Washington is perfect for me right now.
May 16, 2008 at 3:50 pm
DC is my Manhattan
I appreciate the fact that Florida (and its inhabitants) are so blessedly far away from me. The only time I feel a twinge of emotion is when I am scraping ice of the car and freezing my tootsies off b/c it was a wee be too early to break out the open-toed shoes. I heart me some heat. It’s been 3 years since I’ve visited and hope to keep that streak going for as long as humanly possible.
May 16, 2008 at 4:58 pm
magda
So right you are! I liked Washington while I lived there, but kind of in a ho-hum, I’ve been here as long as I’ve had a working memory kind of way.
Now, it’s the little things I love and miss. The mountains. The wine. The really kick-ass seafood. Maryland crab? yucky. So not the same.
May 16, 2008 at 8:03 pm
brandilicious
Oh how I love Vermont…it’s truly my second home.
This past Wednesday was gorgeous in Connecticut. We had the day off and went for a drive down the shore - grabbed lunch at my favorite seafood restaurant and headed to the beach. Sun was shining - it was in the 70’s - just the perfect day. As we drove back home on back roads I was reminded how much I love Connecticut - stone walls, farms, old towns and buildings, four seasons. I used to dream lofty dreams of living in California or anywhere else really, but CT? That is where I belong.
May 17, 2008 at 6:27 am
Z
My sister was very similar to you - she HATED where we grew up (in your neighboring state, NH) until she got to college, where she learned to take pride in it… Me? I always loved it. Sure, it was small and I wanted to explore the world, but I always loved home. I thought I’d be the child who went to college nearby, moved back near to home, etc… Instead, I was the one who went to college the furthest away, have not moved back yet, and am working towards a degree in a field that will more than likely take me even further away… And yet, I still hold onto the hope that one day, maybe. And until then, I love to visit whenever possible. (oh, and VT is OK, too
May 17, 2008 at 9:40 am
alexa
this was a great post heidi.
the best thing i like about my roots is my family being there. oh, and the professional football hall of fame week and our downtown restaurants. oh and taggarts ice cream and the rootbeer stand! : )
May 17, 2008 at 8:39 pm
Just K
I appreciate the change of seasons although our seasons are so messed up, the nightlife, the skyline, and the pizza!
May 19, 2008 at 8:37 am
Laurel
Sometimes you really have to leave home to truly appreciate it. I swear that the instant I left Minnesota, I became a rabid Minnesotaphile! I miss Minnesota huge-ly, but I value the adventures I’ve gotten to have because I left, too.